Is ambiguity the best time?

Reader A Bai's recent life is so sweet that he loses his teeth.

she is very close to a boy and often goes shopping and eats together to see a movie. Even when A Bai gets her period, the boy will hastily send her a hot brown sugar water, let alone ask for warmth.

although the two are now in an ambiguous stage, everyone thinks that they will be together sooner or later.

A Bai ran up to me a few days ago and asked me, "I actually like him." We are having an affair now, and we feel so good that I even think that if we are together, we will not be happy in the ambiguous stage at all. I don't know what to do. "

"I want to take one more step forward, but I don't want to give up. Do you think it's the best time to have an affair? "

when we saw the question of asking for help, we couldn't help but have a heated discussion.

@ Zhiyuan.

"I haven't thought about being together yet, but I just like you.

when Zepeng asked me, a conversation I often saw flashed through my mind.

"confess your love if you like it. What are you afraid of?"

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"I'm afraid I can't even be a friend after I say it."

"but if you think about it, you are not short of friends."

but every time I want to answer for them: "Yes, I don't lack friends, and I don't care if I lack a lover, I just lack her."

when you ask me if I should express my love, I don't think so.

I always remember that Tong c's "love" cannot be hidden. "Love cannot be hidden," there is a comment like this: "you can't hide love. If you keep your mouth shut, you will show it in your eyes."

when you are wondering whether he likes you or not, you should think about why you think so.

when you are worried that you may not be friends after confession, you should think, do you really want to be with him? then why are you so worried that you can't be friends with him, but you don't worry too much about not being able to be lovers with him?

since that's the case, you might as well wait and enjoy this ambiguous period.

what is ambiguity? After many people have experienced several relationships, they will suddenly find that what they miss most is the sour ambiguous period that has not yet been clearly indicated.

talk about heaven and earth every day but don't talk about I love you. The beauty of this period lies in the right distance.

like a layer of paper, I can choose to show you my interesting and special, just like the elaborate costume in front of me, I can also make myself impulsive and grumpy, like taking off my shoes at home and kicking into the corner at will.

there are many practical reasons to consider when formally establishing a relationship, while ambiguity is simply because of the irresistible mutual attraction.

it's like a lazy afternoon in spring, friends booing for no sense, our shy eyes colliding, people who can scratch their hearts itch.

@ far summer.

ambiguity is a game for high-end players. I just want to be with you.

his real name opposes the view that Zhiyuan is ambitious and stupid.

I remember that when I was 17, I also had an inexplicable relationship with her.

she calls me "bb", says "wanan" to me every night, leaves her name on my notebook and draws a heart, and holds my hand tightly on a solo date. She accompanied me on Singles Day and celebrated my birthday alone. She drank the water I drank and asked me to eat the food she could not finish.

however, I am not her boyfriend.

so, when her moments show up with other boys, I can't ask, because I don't know where I'm going to ask.

when he told me he was going to have midnight snacks with his ex-boyfriend, I could only say "um" because I knew I had no identity to be jealous.

even I dare not ask her if she has gone home, what if they are not going to? I don't want her to lie to me.

punk keeps calling me stupid and advises me to take it easy. Anyway, boys have nothing to lose.

he said: "I think it's good to be ambiguous. I enjoy the rights of my boyfriend, but I don't have to do my boyfriend's duties, and I can do it with different people. What's so sad about it?"

in fact, he is right. The fault is that I fell in love first, and the other person didn't like me that much.

in the eyes of the dominant ambiguous party, ambiguity is like a game in which the enemy advances and retreats, and the enemy is tired and disturbed for fun, while in this game, the other side is like a chicken rib, tasteless, but a pity to throw it away. It's just right here.

this game of "who moves first, who dies first" may be just one of the ways that high-ranking people use for fun. Not everyone can afford to play, at least most people can't, at least I can't.

Fuck the ambiguity, if you don't love me, please let me go, please.

@ Wang Zepeng.

I know that ambiguity is sweet, but I want to give up it for you.

ambiguity is actually a kind of temptation, it gives us a chance to "give it a try" first to see how the two people get closer. If we are comfortable, then we will be together. If we are not comfortable, we will separate.

so the role of ambiguity is to guide the relationship from far to near, which itself belongs to a part of falling in love.

since it is a link, it should not be independent.

in fact, after reading Yuanxia and Zhiyuan's point of view, one of the things I think about most is, for A Bai, is the question of "ambiguity is the best" really important?

A Bai is actually afraid that her relationship after being together is not as happy as she used to be, so she asks the question "is ambiguity the best?"

her real question is: "if the future is not as good as the present, do you want to go on?" as to whether ambiguity is the best or not, it doesn't matter to her.

but no matter what the future, she will be pushed forward by time-perhaps with him, or parting ways, no matter what kind of future, may not be as happy as the present.

she is just afraid that she can't bear the fact that there is no better future than the present. People are always careful to walk on the ice when they have the best things, so they feel confused in this relationship.

in fact, there is nothing to be afraid of. Maybe falling in love is not as beautiful as the ambiguous period, but believe that it is still a very happy thing to fall in love with him.

therefore, my suggestion is simple but not so easy to accept, that is, "A Bai, as long as you are happy."

finally.

Hello, everyone. I am the thorn. Today's article is a disorganized new column: "come and ask".

the reason for doing such a column is that after being disorganized, many readers will come to ask some strange questions. However, most of the questions are not worth answering because they are not confused and just want our verbal support.

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